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with Cynthia Martin

A space for self-reflection and renewal

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Where healing is the art of becoming whole.

Transpersonal Therapy in San Francisco 

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I specialize in working with people who feel called toward something deeper—whether that shows up as spiritual longing, a sense of emptiness, big life transitions, or experiences that don’t fit neatly into “symptoms.” My approach is soul-centered and grounded: we start by cultivating safety in your body and daily life, then slowly explore the layers of meaning, myth, ancestry, dreams, and synchronicity that shape your inner world. I blend psychodynamic therapy with parts work, somatic awareness, and transpersonal perspectives drawn from contemplative and creative traditions. We move at the pace of your nervous system and your spirit—honoring both your need for stability and your desire for transformation. I’m queer-affirming, neurodiversity-affirming, and collaborative. Sessions are gentle, curious, and practical: we grow capacity, invite awe back in, and learn to treat “blocks” as thresholds. If you’ve ever wondered whether your pain might also hold a kind of wisdom, you’re in the right place. I offer virtual-only therapy for clients across California.

What Is Transpersonal Therapy?

An Introduction to a Soul-Centered Approach to Healing and Growth


Why People Seek Therapy (and Why Some Need More Than Symptom Relief)

Many people arrive at therapy because something in their life has stopped working. It might be a persistent feeling of anxiety, a relationship that keeps circling the same unresolved dynamics, or a vague but gnawing sense that something is missing—even when things appear fine on the surface. In traditional therapeutic models, the focus is often on symptom management, emotional regulation, cognitive restructuring, or resolving wounds from the past. These are all valuable and essential tools.


But for some, healing isn’t just about finding relief. It’s about rediscovering meaning.
It’s about asking deeper questions: Who am I really? What is my life asking of me? What lies beneath this pain that won’t go away? And perhaps most profoundly: Is there a deeper intelligence moving through my life?
This is the threshold where transpersonal therapy begins.


What Makes Transpersonal Therapy Different?
Transpersonal therapy is a psychospiritual approach that integrates traditional psychological insights with perspectives drawn from depth psychology, contemplative traditions, mysticism, and systems thinking. It includes the psychological, but also embraces the spiritual, the existential, the symbolic, and the energetic dimensions of human experience.

Rather than viewing the self as limited to personality, behavior, and biography, transpersonal therapy holds space for the larger arc of the soul’s journey—a journey that includes initiation, forgetting, longing, expansion, and return.
It doesn't assume your symptoms are just problems to be solved. It asks what they might be trying to say. It invites you into a relationship with your inner life that is creative, dialogical, and layered. And it trusts that within every difficulty lies a seed of transformation.


Who Is Transpersonal Therapy For?
Transpersonal therapy may resonate most with:

  • People at a turning point in life who sense that something deeper is emerging

  • Those who feel limited by reductionist or purely cognitive approaches to healing

  • Individuals seeking meaning, purpose, or spiritual integration in their therapeutic work

  • Artists, seekers, dreamers, empaths, and anyone attuned to the symbolic dimensions of life

  • People who have experienced spiritual awakenings, altered states, or non-ordinary states of consciousness
     

It is especially helpful when life has stripped away old frameworks and you’re left with questions that don’t have easy answers. Transpersonal therapy doesn’t claim to resolve the mystery of being—but it does offer you a way to meet it with courage, creativity, and care.


A Shift in Awareness: What If Your Life Is More Than It Seems?
What if just a small shift in awareness—a single degree—could change the way everything looks and feels?
Try this idea on: you’re not simply in the world. You’re within a world of worlds—a nested dreamscape built for learning through immersion. You didn’t drop in randomly. You entered by choice, even if you don’t consciously remember it. Because as part of the agreement, you had to forget.
It’s part of the design. In order to truly play your role—deeply, convincingly—you had to become fully immersed. The same way a dreamer forgets they’re dreaming in order to experience the dream as real, you forgot the part of you that exists outside this particular storyline.

 

The veil that hides the “bigger picture” is there to protect you. Without it, the immensity of everything you are—everything you’ve ever been—would rush in all at once. There would be no space for this new story, this body, this life to take shape. So the veil folds around your awareness like a cocoon, letting you experience this time, this space, this identity in digestible form.

 

Remembering the Self: Glimpses Beyond the Veil
But there are moments. Cracks in the illusion. A strange familiarity in a stranger’s eyes. A dream that feels truer than waking life. A place you’ve never been that feels like home. Through them, the character catches glimpses of the Player. You feel it: a presence behind your eyes, a deeper knowing pulsing beneath the surface of your life. It’s impossible, and yet it’s more familiar than your own name.

 

The dream of smallness is unraveling. You are the one speaking and the one listening. All of it is part of the sacred curriculum designed to teach you.
You came here not to escape the world, but to be transformed by it.
You came to forget—just enough that remembering would change everything.
And now, it’s starting.

 

Awakening from the Trance
The part of you that forgot is beginning to wake up—not all at once, but in flashes: questions you can’t unask, truths you can’t unfeel, and a subtle but growing sense that you're more than who you thought you were.

 

Not just a personality shaped by circumstance, but a presence choosing to break through it.
Life is asking you to pay attention. Now is the time to break the trance of identification so that you can begin to conceive of your self as bigger than your history here, or your roles. You are not just the daughter, the partner, the employee, the survivor. You are the space in which they arise—and the presence that persists even when they fall away.

 

Introducing the Soul: What Lives Beneath the Personality?
This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about becoming more you than you’ve ever allowed. A deeper layer not shaped by conditioning, personality, or trauma.
You could call it soul.

 

Your soul is not an abstract idea. It’s the you that exists before this life and exists beyond it. The one that came here for a reason. It isn’t concerned with whether you’re succeeding by the world’s standards. It wants to know: Are you aligned with what matters most? Are you living in a way that’s honest, awake, and real?
Unlike the personality, which is built to protect and adapt, the soul is here to deepen and expand. It doesn't avoid discomfort; it uses it. It brings challenges not as punishments, but as initiations—opportunities to come into contact with something more essential than survival or approval.

 

Listening to the Language of the Soul

 

Symptoms as Soul Signals
Your soul doesn’t speak in linear language. It speaks to you through pattern, symbol, emotion, synchronicity. And when you begin to pay attention to it, really listen, you start to sense that your life is not random. It’s responsive. Dialogical. Alive.

 

The soul’s curriculum doesn’t unfold in a classroom. It unfolds through your life—through symptoms that won’t resolve, relationships that repeat, dreams that won’t leave you alone. It speaks in patterns, not punishments. Not to shame you, but to wake you up to yourself.

 

From a transpersonal perspective, symptoms are not enemies. They are invitations. They draw attention to the places where life energy has been blocked or distorted by unprocessed experience, false beliefs, or unlived potentials.
Your soul doesn’t want you to cope your way back into the status quo. It uses discomfort as a kind of highlighter—marking the exact places where something essential is being denied or forgotten.

 

Relationships as Mirrors
The people closest to you—especially the ones who stir the most charge—often serve as mirrors for your own unconscious material. Patterns of abandonment, control, enmeshment, or avoidance don’t just show up randomly. They arise to show you the blueprint you’ve been carrying. Not to shame you—but to make it visible, so you can choose something else.

 

From a soul perspective, every relationship is an invitation. Sometimes it’s an invitation to heal what’s been fragmented. Sometimes it’s an invitation to set a boundary and remember your worth. Sometimes it’s an invitation to open your heart wider than ever before.
Instead of seeing conflict as failure, we begin to see it as material. Each dynamic, especially the painful ones, becomes an entry point into self-understanding.

 

Dreams as Invitations
Dreams—especially the ones that linger—are another language of the soul. While the ego sleeps, the soul speaks more freely. In transpersonal psychology, dreams aren’t always about the personal past. They often open doors to archetypal dimensions, spiritual guidance, or future potential. A dream might present you with a forgotten version of yourself, a shadow you’ve avoided, or a figure who arrives with a message.

To work with dreams transpersonally:

  • Record your dreams daily, even fragments. Over time, themes emerge.

  • Dialog with dream figures: Imagine asking them questions. Let them answer.

  • Look for repetition: What keeps showing up? Animals, colors, locations? These are threads.

  • Ask your dreams for guidance: Before bed, pose a sincere question—and remain open to symbolic answers.
     

Working With the Soul's Curriculum
Inquiry: Asking Soul-Level Questions
Personal growth often begins with asking better questions. Soul-level inquiry means slowing down enough to ask questions like, “If my soul chose this experience as part of my learning, what might it be teaching me?”

 

These aren’t questions you rush to answer. They’re questions you live with. You ask them gently, and then watch what arises—through your emotions, your body, your dreams, your daily life.

Ritual: Marking Thresholds
The soul responds to intentionality. One way to strengthen the relationship is to bring ritual into your life—not as performance, but as a way of marking inner thresholds.

  • Write a letter to a former version of yourself you’re ready to release

  • Light a candle before doing inner work

  • Create an altar for what you’re becoming

 

These small acts help make the invisible visible. They declare to your psyche: this matters.


Embodiment and Felt-Sense Awareness
The soul speaks through the body.
Learn to:

  • Track sensation during emotional shifts

  • Let the body move what the mind can’t process

  • Speak to your tension as if it were a part of you—because it is

 

When you treat your body as a source of wisdom, you stop needing to “figure it out.” You begin to feel your way into what’s true.

 

Let the Curriculum Reveal Itself
The soul’s curriculum is not something you master. It’s something you learn to be in conversation with. It moves at the pace of truth. It isn’t rushed. It’s responsive. It doesn’t always make sense in real time—but looking back, you start to see the pattern.
This is not about comfort—it’s about meaning. About contact with what’s most alive in you. The invitation is to collaborate with your own becoming.

 

The Role of the Transpersonal Therapist
A transpersonal therapist serves less as a fixer and more as a witness, guide, and co-traveler. They hold a space where all aspects of you—psychological, emotional, somatic, creative, spiritual—are welcome.

 

Rather than interpreting your experience through a one-size-fits-all lens, they stay curious about your unique unfolding. They may help you track patterns, integrate dreams, tend to grief, or navigate spiritual awakenings without pathologizing them.
Perhaps most importantly, they trust your process even when you don’t. They hold faith in the deeper intelligence of your life—the part that knows how to heal, how to reconfigure, how to re-member.

 

Tools of the Transpersonal Path
Transpersonal therapists draw from a wide toolkit depending on the client and context. These may include:

  • Depth-oriented inquiry that explores identity, belief systems, and personal mythology

  • Parts work (e.g., IFS) to build inner relationship and compassion across internal polarities

  • Somatic awareness to reconnect with the body’s intelligence

  • Guided visualization, active imagination, or dreamwork to access the symbolic and archetypal layers of experience

  • Ritual and intention to mark inner thresholds and support integration

  • Spiritual emergence/crisis support, for clients navigating profound non-ordinary experiences

 

What these have in common is a shift from linear, surface-level interpretation to a deeper, layered way of relating to experience. The goal isn’t to control your life into submission—it’s to enter into relationship with it.

No one else can walk your path, but you don’t have to walk it in isolation. The work of remembering, of living from soul, is tender and courageous. It asks you to question what you’ve been told about who you are, to soften your grip on certainty, and to step into an evolving relationship with something deeper. Whether you’re in a moment of crisis or quiet reawakening, the invitation is the same: pay attention. Listen inward. Let your symptoms, your dreams, your longings become part of the conversation. And if you choose to walk that path with a transpersonal therapist, know this—you're not being led anywhere you don’t already carry within you. You’re simply being accompanied home.

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Transpersonal Therapy FAQ

 

What is transpersonal therapy, in plain language?
Transpersonal therapy is a form of psychotherapy that includes your whole being—mind, body, emotions, and your connection to something larger than yourself. That “larger” might be nature, creativity, ancestors, mystery, or a sense of the sacred. We work with symptoms and patterns, and we also explore meaning, purpose, and the deeper currents moving through your life.

 

Is transpersonal therapy spiritual?
Yes. This approach starts from the belief that humans have a soul dimension—not just a personality. Your inner life, intuition, dreams, and experiences of connection are treated as real and worth listening to. How you understand that dimension is personal and rooted in your own culture, history, and lineage.

 

Do I have to already see myself as “spiritual”?
No. You don’t have to use that word or have a fixed set of beliefs. Many people come in confused, ambivalent, skeptical, or in the middle of deconstructing old frameworks. What matters is a curiosity about meaning and an openness to exploring your inner life, not fitting a particular identity.

 

How do you handle different cultural and religious backgrounds?
Sacred experience is deeply shaped by culture, family, and history. I aim to honor the traditions you come from, be mindful of power and appropriation, and stay within what feels respectful to you. Any practices we use are adapted to your background and consent; you’re the authority on what is and isn’t aligned for you.

 

What kinds of concerns is transpersonal therapy helpful for?
People often seek this work for grief, life transitions, existential anxiety, identity shifts, creative blocks, or a sense that “the old life doesn’t fit anymore.” It can also support trauma healing when the injury touches not only your nervous system, but your trust, hope, or sense of belonging in the world.

 

Do you still work with symptoms like anxiety, depression, or dissociation?
Yes. We start with safety and stabilization: grounding, nervous-system regulation, boundaries, and daily-life support. Symptoms are approached as meaningful signals rather than personal flaws. As more steadiness emerges, we explore what those signals might be asking for at a deeper level.

 

What does a session actually look like?
Sessions are grounded and conversational. We might explore dreams or imagery, notice sensations in your body, listen for different “parts” of you, reflect on meaningful coincidences, or trace how early relationships shaped your sense of self and the sacred. I blend psychodynamic therapy, parts work, somatic awareness, and transpersonal perspectives, always at the pace of your nervous system.

 

Is your approach affirming for LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent clients?
Yes. My work is queer-affirming and neurodiversity-affirming. We pay attention to how your identities shape your inner life and relationship with the sacred, including places you’ve felt erased or harmed. Language, pacing, and tools are adapted to your nervous system and lived experience.

 

Do you offer in-person sessions?
No. I currently offer virtual therapy only for clients located anywhere in California.

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